Episode 4· Health· Wellness

It's Not Just Stress

Kelley Maple on the Midlife Unraveling No One Names

56 min · Aug 2026

Show notes

What if the thing you've been calling "just stress" for three years has a name?

In this episode of Rooted in Resilience, Zarina sits down with Kelley Maple, APRN, FNP-BC — board-certified Family Nurse Practitioner, Chief Medical Officer of Medical Anti-Aging in Fort Lauderdale, and founder of The KM Health Collective. Kelley has spent her career treating hormones. She still didn't see her own perimenopause coming.

This is the conversation her other interviews never got to. Not the expert explaining the curriculum — the woman who explained her own symptoms away, kept treating patients while quietly unraveling, and had to become the patient to finally understand what she'd been telling everyone else. Then she turns it outward, and gives you something to actually use.

In this episode:

– The season her own body started doing things she couldn't explain

– The "zone of chaos": why this can start in your late 30s, and why the first signs are mental

– Why antidepressant prescriptions jump about 40% for women in their 40s

– Testosterone as a female hormone, and the roughly 50% drop by 40

– The 2002 study that pulled a generation off hormones, and where the science stands now

– Hormones and relationships: what breaks, and what comes back

– A free first-steps stack you can start this week: protein, resistance training, creatine

– What it costs to be the strong one who's supposed to have all the answers

For anyone navigating a change their body is making without permission — and for anyone hiding a private struggle behind competence.

About the guest

Kelley Maple, APRN, FNP-BC

Board-certified Family Nurse Practitioner

Chief Medical Officer, Medical Anti-Aging · Founder, The KM Health Collective

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